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Hey guys, it’s almost time for me to reorder condoms again, and I figured since it’s close to valentine’s day, I might as well order some more goodies too. Here is a list of everything I bought and you might enjoy as well.

The Best Condoms in the fucking world!

Crown Condoms - 100 Pack

For only $27.99 with FREE SHIPPING these are definetely, by far, the best deal on the best condoms ever made. They call them “Skinless Skin” and this is my third time reordering for a reason. They feel as close to wearing nothing at all as possible.

The Vibrating Condom!

The Original Vibrating Johnny.

Get a six pack for $19.95 and have a fun new toy that isn’t really a sex toy, but still gives that vibrating feeling. Imagine transforming your cock into a vibrator! I like these as an easy way to introduce sex toys to girls I fuck without making it awkward. You simply put the vibrating johnny on to of your condom and wah-la! Orgasms galore!

The best lube ever!

Liquid Silk Personal Lubricant

Most lubes are sticky and tacky feeling, but this is the fucking best. Even if you’re just jacking off, this is the best lube out there. But use this with a girl, no matter how wet she is already and she’ll LOVE IT and you will too. For only $15.95 for a good sized bottle, you have to invest.

The World’s BEST Vibrator - According to Porn Stars!

Hitachi Magic Wand

I was first introduced to this vibrator by a porn star I hooked up with. She said that she tried every different one out there but this was the only one that would always make her orgasm. She taught me how to use it on her, and it was the first time I’ve ever made a girl squirt. I ended up buying two, one for me to use and one as a gift for the girl I was seeing.

Valentine’s Day Gifts:

Whether it’s for yourself, to load up on condoms for 2010, or if you want to buy some toys for the lucky girls in your life, I highly recommend these guys. I order from them myself, and if you use my link I get some free shit, so hook me up if you’re in need to buy some condoms anyways. Plus you get FREE SHIPPING on every order over $50. Have fun, and get some great sex!

I remember the first time I went with a bunch of PUA’s to Vegas, when we all got out asses kicked.

I met this really cute blonde white girl and both she and I got harassed by a big group of corn fed bro dudes. I had been making out with the girl on the dance floor where they started pushing me and took a swing. Luckily the security broke it up before anything bad happened.

Unluckily, we saw them again while walking to our hotel. One of the PUAs gets knocked to the ground, the other one runs away, and I’m stuck with three guys, one much larger than me punching my head. I tried fighting back, and that that moment more than any, I wished my dad had taught me how to be a man, and taught me how to fight. He didn’t, and I got my ass kicked.

Fight Training - DHV:

Asian Playboy once said “If you want get the Woman of your dreams, you have to be the Man of hers.” And if you can’t defend and protect the woman you’re with, you don’t deserve her.

So I started taking Muay Thai Kickboxing, and learned a few moves. However…I realized that practicing in a gym and thinking I would know what to do in a real fight was kind of like reading pick up material and never going out sarging. So I did it…I signed up for a Professional Muay Thai Kickboxing fight. And here it is:

I hope you enjoy’d the video,

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf
www.TheSocialSecrets.com

Get a Date by Valentine’s Day Challenge (2010) by Johnny Wolf

Hey guys, it’s only a few weeks away from Valentine’s day and if you don’t have a girl in your life yet, or if you simply want an upgrade, take my challenge and you WILL get an awesome girl by Valentine’s day GUARANTEED.

If you follow my rules I guarantee that you’ll have a date by v-day. I know this because this is the forth year this challenge has been going on and everyone who has done it has gotten good results.

It’ll be fun, easy, and remarkably successful. Last year when I first posted this challenge on my blog we had a ton of guys commenting saying they got successes from it, one guy even had too many dates for a single day so he had to do a Valentine’s Eve date, a V-Day lunch date and a V-Day dinner date.

How to get started:

Today:

Go to Rite Aid, Sav-On, Walmart, Target, or any other big store and buy three boxes of cheap valentine day cards. They come in 32 packs and are about $3 per box, making each card less than 10 cents.

Remember giving these out in elementry school? You had to give one to each person in your class or none at all? These are it! And remember the funnier, sillier and cheezier the better.

Hint: These are not in the greeting card aisle, they are in the toy aisle. Do not spend $2 a card in the greeting aisle, you want the cheap, silly ones.

Warning: Do not get ones that say “I love you” or anything serious, remember, sillier the better. Here are some examples of good ones.

What to do starting Tomorrow:

You have a couple different options when it comes to what to write on the cards. I’ve tried it different ways with various results, but at the end of the day, every way works it just depends on how comfortable you are at following up the conversation. I suggest picking the one you are most comfortable with.

What to write on the card:

You can either pre-write these or you can carry and pen and write them on the spot in front of her. The good thing about pre-writing is that often you’ll be passing the girl and you will not have time to write, however, there is a spontaneous, genuine factor with writing the card in the view of the girl and then approaching with it. I suggest doing a mixture of all three techniques to see what works best for you in your situation.

Option #1: Write your name and contact info on the cards. You can put down your email, phone number or both.

This one is good if you are very shy and do not have good follow up conversation and phone closing skills. This one takes the most amount of time to write, and you cannot expect most girls from following up. However, I have had PUAs do this in the past with success. Because it’s close to valentine’s day and every girl wants to be with someone, there is a higher chance they
will call or email.

Option #2: Write a little note saying “I thought you were cute” or “Coffee?”

This works best on the spot, carry a pen with you and write it on the spot. Works well if the girl is sitting at a table near you either eating, or studying.

Option #3: Leave it blank. And stay and chat with her.

This is the option I usually do. I’ll just walk up to the girl with it blank, chat her up and she’ll usually ask me why it’s blank, or i’ll suggest filling it out. It’s a good way to transition to a number close since I’ll tell her she needs to give me one as well, on a piece of blank paper or napkin usually.

Important Note:

Carry them around with you at ALL times. A minimum of 10, put some in your car, your wallet, jacket and pants pockets. You’ll never know when you’ll walk by a cute girl that you’ll want to give it to.

Trust me, the most random times are the best, so keep them on you at all times even if you’re just going to the grocery store or walking your dog.

For the next 14 days:

Your goal is to give out eight cards a day for the next 14 days, assuming you start February 1st. If you do it correctly, you’ll have approached one hundred and twelve girls some of which you will have asked out on a date and have your phone number.

When was the last time you were able to give our your number to over one hundred girls in two weeks?

Who to give it to:

Any attractive woman you see, ANYWHERE. Because it is such an easy little gimmick, you can give it to women you pass by on the street, in elevators, at restaurants, in the mall, and of course night clubs and bars.

I’ve given it to the girl at the drive through window, the hostess at a restaurant and girls at the next table while we were eating and random girls on the street and in the elevator.

What to say to the girl:

“Hi, I wanted to give you a valentine’s day card”
“Hi, I know I don’t know you yet, but here.”
“I just had to give this to you”
“Will you be my valentine?”

Or if you’re really shy, just go up say hi, hand it to her and walk away.

What I normally do is just go up to a girl, smile, hand her the card and say this is for you. Then I just shut up, and wait for her to say something. Or other times I’ll open as normal and after a few minutes I’ll tell her I have a present for her and give her a card. Either way it works FANTASTICALLY, this is the easiest gimmick opener EVER.

Field Tested:

Do you think I would really send you out as sheeps among wolves? Well, maybe.

But I loved this idea so much that I’ve been personally been using every year since 2006. I’ve had great success with it last year, as well as my personal friends and tons of guys in the pick up community.

What do to if the girl is a bitch:

If a girl calls you out on it, just admit to it, and say, “Is it really so fucking wrong to want a date on valentine’s day?” And either let her apologize and keep talking to her, or next her. You have 112 opportunities in the next 14 days. Knowing that you can also just brush it off and move onto the next girl, it’s just a game. Make the most of it.

P.S. So far this technique has been 100% rejection free.

If you need more Help:

If you need more help take a bootcamp. This challenge is seriously as easy as it’ll ever get, so if you don’t have at least a few dates by valentine’s day or if you have trouble approaching, number closing, and getting dates using this method, then there is probably something else wrong with your game that you’ll need calibrating with.

For those who don’t know, a bootcamp is a three day small group private workshop where the instructor helps you with your strong points and helps you work on your weaknesses. Common exercises include fixing body language, teaching you how to project your voice, make proper eye contact, and when and how to properly touch the girl.

Other exercises include what to say when approaching a girl, what to do if there are guys in the group, and where to take it from there. On all three nights we go out to a bar or a club to practice what you’ve learned, then we go over your successes as well as figure out what you need to improve on. If anyone is interested I’ll be teaching a three day bootcamp next month, you can get more details on the right hand side of my blog.

This is your life, seize the day, and don’t put off happiness, sex, and love for another year.

Upcoming bootcamps taught by Johnny Wolf:

Who: Taught by Johnny Wolf
Where: Las Vegas
When: Friday Saturday Sunday March 19th - 22nd 2010
Cost: This is my first EVER bootcamp starting at under $1,000! But only if you book early.
Sign Up: http://jwolfvegas2010.eventbrite.com/

WANNA TAKE THE CHALLENGE AND GET A DATE BY VALENTINE’S DAY?

Go to the forum and reply to the tread to say you’re in:

http://www.abcsofattraction.com/community/viewtopic.php?f=58&t=2432&sid=730a868c3d30185a8c21910244a908fc

Or Simply leave a comment here on my blog.

Then come back everyday and report your results!

Good Luck!,

Johnny Wolf

First Adam Lyons marriage closed the beautiful Amanda, then Speer proposed to his girlfriend at the 2009 PUA Summit, and now everyone’s getting married.

Introducing - Random Asian guy, Jeffery Wong - Marriage Close Action Trailer!

-Johnny Wolf

As most of you know, I’m a big fan of Timothy Ferris and his book “The Four-Hour Workweek” I was watching some of his youtube videos and came across this:

For those who don’t want to outsource your dating life to a Filipino assistant but still want to reduce the time it takes to date and hook up, here is my version:

How to Tim Ferris your Love Life Johnny Wolf Style:

1. Do NOT use dating sites:

A lot of people make the mistake of using online dating as a way to save time meeting people, but if you actually log the number of hours it takes to browse through profiles, send messages and set up a date, it takes much much more time than meeting someone in person.

Even the act of filling out your profile on eHarmony.com takes over an hour! And sending messages that get no reply is the biggest waste of time ever.

2. Tell Five Friends:

Tell five of your friends, co-workers, or even family members that you want to start dating and ask them to set you up. Blind dates may not always work out well, but you never know!

3. Do what you do:

The best place to meet women without doing any work is to simply do what you do. For me, I scuba dive and meet new women every time I go. For you, if you like hiking, yoga, or taking cooking classes, here are women there that you can easily meet with minimum effort.

Just do what you’re planning to do anyways and if you see a pretty girl there, invite her to hang out for some food or a drink afterwards.

4. Be Direct, Go Direct:

If you’re going to “pick up” a girl you might as well save your time and go direct. Tell her upfront that she’s beautiful and make your move. If she’s interested, great, if not, you only wasted 40 seconds instead of half an hour.

5. Get a job where women come to you:

I’m currently reading “9 Ball” by Jeff Allen aka Jeffy/Jilax of RSD, just for shit and giggles.

Someone old me it was like “The Game” by Neil strauss only darker and more disturbing. and so far that’s kind of true. I’ve always been interested in how guys get into the game and what kind of fucked up lives they’ve had before. I’ve met Jeffy a few times and always knew he was fucked up beyond belief…it wasn’t his “game” that made him good, it was his ability to not give a shit.

If you want to read a sequel to the game, not necessarily to learn how to pick up girls, but as entertainment and to see that your life is not as bad as you think it might be compared to others, read this book.

As far as pick up is concerned, there is a certain something about “I don’t care” that makes you good at picking up women. Not giving a shit might just be the most powerful pick up tool there is. Good luck with that and enjoy the ride, after all, life is a game.

-JW

I’ve never been a believer in one night stands. If anything I hate them. It feels like such a waste. If you’re going to hook up with someone, why only do it once? For the amount of time, energy and stress both guys and girls go through to have sex the first time, it’s almost stupid to just do it once.

Why guys do it:

Guys have one night stands because of their egos, a lot of guys I’ve come across think that if they have sex with a girl and take her power, or conquer her, he’s the man and gets a boost in his ego.

Why girls do it:
Girls will sometimes have one night stands because they’re afraid you’ll become needy or too attached.

One night Stands vs. More Night Stands:

What’s better than one night of sex is multiple nights of sex and possibly some type of relationship. Friend’s with Benefits is excellent for those who don’t want to be a serious relationship. But honestly, if you haven’t had a long term girlfriend in the past two years, or you’ve never dated a girl for more than 7 months, maybe you should look into it.

My Current Relationship:

I’ve been dating a Scandinavian girl for the last three months now and tomorrow we’re going on vacation together. It’s seriously something that I didn’t even realize I missed. I’m still meeting new girls all the time but trust me, having a girl that really cares about you beats fucking some random drunk chick every time.

Warm Regards and Good Luck out there,

Johnny Wolf

Hey guys, I know it’s only hours until New Year’s Eve so hopefully you read this in time. If you want the free tips earlier, just sign up for my free newsletter and it’ll be sent to your email before it goes on my blog!

No one wants to go home unkissed on New Year’s Eve!

Women who normally never go out to bars and clubs will be out there trying just as hard as you to get makeouts! After you kiss them make sure you get their phone number because some of these girls will be top quality girlfriend material, and not the normal club girls you’ll meet every week.

Since gaming on NYE is slightly more aggresive than on a normal night, here are some specific techniques on how to hook up on NYE!

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Johnny Wolf’s New Year’s Eve Tips and Tricks: Updated for 2010

1. Peacocking is OKAY on NYE! Even if you never wear anything flashy or if you are against peacocking, which many of us are,

on NYE it is encourged! Wear a big crazy hat, flashing lights, a crazy outfit, have the scrolling LED belt that says “Happy

New Years, Kiss Me” or even have mistle toe hanging from your hat. On this night, it is okay for even profesisionals to wear

stupid, outrageous outfits and gear. On NYE drunk women are looking for the flashiest shinnest object they can spot.

2. Be extra social! Talk to EVERYONE, have fun from as soon as you get in the door. Don’t worry about proper game, setting up

perfect social proof, or any of that. Just be the fun party guy that night. Lose your ambitions because no one else will have

any either. On NYE You’ll have a perfect excuse to talk to EVERYONE.

3. Don’t talk too much, don’t go too deep into comfort or share too many comfort stories, keep up light and fun. This is the

night to only to touch on the surface of things. You don’t need deep rapport, women don’t want to get to know you tonight,

they just want to have fun and be wild!

4. Get the phone number early. You’ll lose people very quickly in these crowds, so if you find out she lives, or works near

you, or you want to see her again. Just tell her right away even within minutes of meeting her “Hey you live in _________

too? Give me your number and i’ll call you next year!” And bring a stack of business cards, this is a easy way to keep in

touch - just make sure you send them an email the next day or give them a call saying you met last year.

5. Kiss her before midnight. Don’t waste your time waiting till the perfect moment. Make the perfect moment! You can even say

“There’s no way I’m waiting till midnight to kiss you”

Happy New Year’s Kiss - Try it! Go for the kiss everytime you say “happy new years” to a girl. The worst thing that’ll

happen is she’ll turn her cheek. Either way, its NYE so she won’t hold it against you! Rejection free k-closing!

Practice Kiss - Tell a girl you want to kiss her at midnight, if she agrees, say “let’s practice” and kiss her then.

Double Girl’s Kiss - Tell two girls you want to see them give each other a New Year’s kiss, and when they do, say you want one too and join the action!

Logistics: The best NYE Parties

1. Where to go: You have three choices.

A. Personal house parties: these could be intimate with just close friends and family. If you go to one of these, bring a
date. If you’re single, invite as many girls as you can to the party and hope that other guys do too. But don’t jump from party to party, it is a waste of your time, and time is precious on New Years, you might get stuck somewhere at midnight you dont’ want to be.

B. City Sponsored Ball Drop: Examples include Times Square in New York, Las Vegas Strip. Good news is that it is free, but bad is that it is cold, crowded, and is filled with tourtists, and familys. If you go to one of these, you have to create your own social circle, as in, go with some friends, and randomly meet people and invite them to walk with you. Most of these places allow you to bring your own liquor but only in plastic bottles. So this is your chance to buy the big bottles of 1.75 ML Malibu Rum, with a bottle of Pineapple juice and extra cups, and have a reason for women to stick and swoon to you and your group.

C. Night Clubs/Large Parties: A lot of these cost up to $100 but are open bar, which is great for you in two ways. #1, you
drink for free, but #2 EVERYONE is buzzed and having fun. Bar lines get very long, so early on before it gets crazy, find a bartender you like. introduce yourself, and give them a decent tip for your ‘free drinks’, as in $5 per drink, up to $20 if you’re ordering for friends. And they’ll remember you all night and you’ll wont’ waste time standing around. Aside from that, there are going to be a ton of hot 21-35 yr old women in these venues, so find a good one and stay there all night.

Bonus: Where ever you go, make sure you either have a hotel close by, or transportation set up for the way back. Getting home on NYE is very difficult, you’re tired, and cabs will all be taken. In some cities like San Francisco, public transportation stops for some stupid reason. So make sure you have extra room in your car, or a hotel within walking distance. There is a very good chance that the girl you’ve spent the later portion of the night with is going to take you up on your offer to chill out at your hotel, or house after where you two can break in the new years right by having NYE sex. You can also have the after party be at your house as well.

What to say: 5 Easy Openers:

Easy NYE Opener: “Happy New Years!!!!!!!!” - Then follow it up by either going for the kiss or giving a hug.

Direct - “You’re beautiful, I want to kiss you at midnight”

Direct - “Hi I’m Johnny, May I kiss you at midnight?”

Natural - “Hi, who are you planning to kiss at midnight?”

More Easy Kiss Closes:

“There is now way I’m going to wait till midnight to kiss you” then go for the kiss.

“Hey before I forget…*kiss*….”happy new years”

“Can I kiss you at midnight” if she says yes, kiss her right then. If she calls you out on it, just say ‘hey i’m impaitent”

Easy sexual transition topics:

“So what’s the most adventurist thing you did in 2009?
“Do you think you had enough amazing sex in 09?”
“What’s something crazy or naughty even that you’d put on your new years resolution list”

Even better in 2010

Have fun, bring three condoms, and extra cab fare because you’ll never know where you’ll end up that night! And if one of the things on your new years resolution is to be better with women in 2010, sign up for the March Bootcamp that I’m teaching in

Las Vegas - for the first time EVER I’m teaching this bootcamp for less than $1,000 but only if you preregister early. Las Vegas - March 17th-22nd 2010
jwolfvegas2010.eventbrite.com

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf
http://www.TheSocialSecrets.com - My personal Blog

From Rich - Via Facebook:

Your “How to Pickup Asian Girls” advice was spot on. I put it to use straight away and had a gorgeous Chinese girlfriend within a month.

Here’s a pic if the link works. I dated the girl on the far left for about 7 months. I have to say Chinese girls are amazing to experience in bed. Their skin, as you know, is silky smooth and flawless all over. And their cute eyes looking up at you make you melt.

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I’ve slept with this girl about 10 or so times now and the sex has always been pretty good, or at least it was good enough. Sometimes though I’d drift off thinking about another girl, or feel like I was just pumping away to make myself cum…which was stupid since I the girl in front of me was hotter and sexier than the girls I was trying to imagine.

The old me, the pre-game me would have to assumed the sex was good and wouldn’t have tried to make it better. But after reading The Sex God Method by Daniel Rose I realized that the reason why 99% of guys THINK they are good in bed, while girls only rate 20% of guys as actually good is because of our egos. Now I say, fuck my ego, I want to improve and genuinely be good in bed.

The Sex Report:

I used the DEVI Model in the Sex God Method to figure out what was missing. Turns out I needed more Dominance through dirty talk, more Immersion by having me be more present and her worrying less about her insecurities and if I really liked her our was just playing her. Also we needed more Emotion and Variety as well.

Dominance - As we were leaving my house to go to dinner, I turned off the lights, grabbed her and pushed her back against my front door. I kissed her hard and passionately, then cut it off, went out and didn’t even mention it.

Dirty Talk - When we started having sex, I started telling her how tight her pussy was and how my cock was too big for it. She loved the dirty talk and later told me it turned her out a lot.

Emotion: I looked deep into her eyes and told her how much I cared about her, and that I really liked her. I asked if her she trusted me and our emotional bond grew during it.

Tip: Never talk about your emotions with a girl unless you’re having sex, during sex it makes your bond stronger, during dinner it makes you seem needy and weak.

Variety: We talked about fucking on the beach next time, and that she should wear a dress and I’ll pull her panties to the side and fuck her on the sand. We role played this while fucking. Also I started to introduce the idea of anal sex verbally and physically.

Immersion: Instead of fucking like we usually do,. this was the first time we made love. Actually it was the first time I’ve made love with any girl in years. And it was amazing for our immersion and connection.

We had slow, sensual sex for over and hour, talking the whole time, and building up all four parts of the DEVI model. Our relationship is stronger than ever now and she’s more and more into me because I was able to be amazing in bed. If you haven’t read the sex god method AND watched the premium videos on how to, you need to do so. And if you’re like me and read it a few years ago, do yourself a huge favor and watch the new videos Dan put up in the VIP section.

Sex God Method

Sex God Method: http://www.sexgodmethod.com/sgm/sexgod.html

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf