I’m going to attempt to write an article on how to Meet Women without using any pick up terminology, something that the general main stream public can read and understand, but with usable information that actually works. Here we go!
1. Be ready, or at least on your way to being ready to date. This means, take care of your financial situation, housing, and general well being, before going out on the market.
—Most Pick Up Artists don’t have this part down yet, so technically a PUA Routines are some what of a cheat code—
2. Get a make over. Groom yourself, get clothing that actually fits, and start getting in shape.
3. Approach women that you are attracted to. Don’t worry about going to a club or a bar, start talking to women you already run across in your daily life, at the supermarket, gym, coffee shop, or where ever you go.
—If you absoutely cannot approach and talk to women, then maybe you do need pick up, and possibly a bootcamp—
4. Geniunely connect with women, and get past all the bullshit. Share something personal with her, and get to know her for real.
5. Ask her out on a date, then get her phone number to keep in touch. Do it in this order, so she knows your interest and intention.
6. Take her out somewhere where she’ll be comfortable and you two can talk. The point of a 1st date, is so she can see that you’re the same charming, attractive guy that she met, and it wasn’t just the alcohol.
7. Make sure you kiss her at the end of first date, but don’t push it further unless it is mutual. A kiss at the end of the night is a way to show that you are indeed, romantically interested in her, and that you are sexually confident, but not pushy. This tells her that you want to be more than just friends.
8. Give her space, allow her time to talk to her friends about you, wonder and fantasize. Then call her out of the blue to set up another date. This time, have it be more romantic.
9. There is no reason to lead a girl on, let your intentions be known. Whatever you want out of the relationship is most likely okay with her as well, but only if you let her know upfront.
10. Have fun with it. Don’t let rules, society, or what your friends have to say get in your way.
The reason why I wrote this article was because I met a girl that I might actually really be into. She’s not your typical LA girl…she’s actually normal. Which is why I decided from the first time I met her, to be 100% real with her, and not use any pick up stuff. As a rule, and out of respect, I will never talk about girls that I am currently dating, so don’t expect to hear anything else about her. But remember that meeting women and being successful in your dating life isn’t supposed to be hard.
However, the pick up community exists for a reason. The above article only works if you are already attractive and confident. These are two traits that many guys that join the community do not have. The community is a way for guys to learn the basic skills of being good with women that they should have learned naturally during their teen and college years. Instead of dying a virgin, or settling with a girl that they wouldn’t be happy with, the pick up community gives guys a fighting chance to be the guy they’ve always dreamed of being. There is absoutely nothing wrong with wanting to better yourself and become successful with women.
Written by Johnny Wolf
Topics: Secrets