Johnny Wolf\'s PUA Blog

I wanted to share something with you guys, and it has to do with frame, and being in state. AFC Adam Lyons kept talking about this video, and it clicked when I read a review a student of mine that took our ABC of Attraction bootcamp in San Francisco wrote on The San Francisco Lair.

Written by: mustangx218
02/25/08

Everything just fell into place tonight.
FR – Asian Playboy’s ABC of Attraction BOOTCAMP Day 3
Instructor: Johnny Wolf

Tonight was Graduation night. Johnny covered E and F of the ABC’s model which was really helpful tonight. It was also AMOG night. Now
that I learned all this stuff AND AMOG, I feel unstoppable. This was the night where everything I learned tied in together. The ABC’s Model
goes like this:

A: Attract and Approach
B: Buying Temperature
C: Comfort and Connection
D: Direct Interest
E: Escalation and Extraction
F: Fun or Fake?

http://youtube.com/watch?v=4btGeOAweAg

Everything just snapped into place. All I did was follow the model and use what I learned today. Also, I have to say that after yesterday’s venue, today was a piece of cake. It was SOOOOOOOOO easy. Here’s what went down.

We got into the elevator and there were these 2 hot chicks (HBRed and HBBlack). We just threw in c/f lines because they commented on
Showtime’s fedora hat. We got off and the place wasn’t exactly cracking yet. After all, it was a Sunday night. Johnny sees HBRed by
herself because HBBlack went to the bathroom. I seriously cannot remember what I said. I kino-opened and went in indirectly. HBBlack
came in and I BLP’d her. Thank god she didn’t come to drag her off into the bathroom because I would’ve looked like a fool since HBRed
was not being commited. I think HBBlack saw how I handled her and I had instant attraction/BT spike. I BLP and talk to HBBlack because it
was easier to start over on her because she was giving me IOIs. I go directly into comfort because I knew I was in good standing and I
banter back here and there. After a while, I tried to isolate her to our booth. She told me that she would go check on her friend and then
drop by. She went to check on her friend and I ejected. This is where I fucked up. I felt like I had all the necessary components to # close
and all I needed was a bit more time and comfort plus showing my direct interest and it would’ve been solid. That wasn’t the problem
though. It was because I did not lead. I should’ve taken her hand and told her that I would go and tell her friend for her. Next time I
went back, they were had already left the venue. I thought I did really well.

2 set seated: Hot ass Blonde and Black haired girl.
I was going to go indirect, but they knew something was up, so I saved myself. I BT spiked, which was surprisingly easy. At this moment,
everything is just so Matrix-like I don’t even remember what I say. I have some canned statements that I would use, more or less they’re
cold reads, but as soon as they bite onto it, I hook. One problem here was that I had enough BT, but not enough comfort and I tried to pull
them to our table too quick. I stayed in set for a long time and I thought I did really well. Oh yea, I remembered the blonde had a
wedding ring w/ a rock. So, maybe that’s why she didn’t come over?

Set: (HBLatina)2 set which became into a 5 set.
I went in direct. Then straight into comfort because I already knew I had enough attraction/BT.

Before I continue, I want to say that after watching Johnny Wolf yesterday do direct, I learned SOOOOOOOO much more than I could’ve
learned from watching a DVD/Seminar. I nailed my direct opener. Here is the thing with direct, most of the time that I’ve used it, it would
cause a BT Spike meaning that I would get attraction as soon as I opened. It is SO powerful. It blows the shit out of indirect openers.
It blows the shit out of Apocalypse openers. You just need really good follow up. I always thought that this was an advanced opener that was
used when you got really good and weaned off opinion openers through field experience. I was wrong. I was able to use this effectively from
what I was taught from bootcamp, but I’m sure that it varied from person to person.

So I continued to do comfort and I try to pull her to our booth. She says that she’d check on her friends and I find out there is an AMOG.
I’m thinking, ” I’m the JUGGERNAUT, BITCH! AMOG, FIGHT!” I introduce myself and eventually he out AMOGs me because he’s a friend and pulled
them to the dance floor.

I wing for the other student (I think he came up with a handle tonight, but I don’t remember it but I’ll refer to him as Scholar). I
went in and I said, “Hey, what’s up. I’m the JUGGERNAUT, BITCH!” I BLP her, but Johnny told me I did it too early without any comfort which
was bad. She tells me she’s married.  I AMOG the guy and befriend him. So, no threat around here. While I was doing that, I noticed that
Scholar wasn’t even talking to the girl anymore. He was watching me. I’m thinking, “?” She politely ejects for me.

I reopen HBLatina’s group. She remember’s me and as soon I walked up to them she said, “How are you doing?” I approach the guy again to
befriend one more time. I’m too nice of a guy and got too friendly with him and felt that it would’ve been bad for me to block out and
ignore HER friend. I’m going to have to do it the next time I go out to get it out of my head. He knows what’s up. He asks me if I was into
his girl and that we should have a four way: Him and his girl + Me and (I had to find a girl). Awesome!!! I didn’t #close because I tried to
pull them back to the booth and do it later. However, because I did not ignore him earlier in the conversation and because he was a
friend, I think he had more value for her than me at the moment. They disappeared later in the night.

Next set: HBShortie was inside a VIP table reserved and I didn’t even notice the AMOG in the group. He was this ghetto black dude with
stunner shades. As soon as I approached, he told me to leave. I kept on talking for a bit and he told me to, “Leave, Go.” I had to leave
because I was intruding on their section. Too bad that she didn’t get a chance to know me because she was bored as fuck and I know I
would’ve been a better match for her than that dude.

I did a set with a mixed set with HBRussian in it. I was thinking, AMOG AMOG AMOG!!! She was a total babe. I befriended the guy too much,
so I didn’t get anywhere. I gotta start ignoring them after acknowledging them. I’m too nice of a guy.

I chilled for a bit in between sets, so it wasn’t like I was an approach monster. Before my last set, I sat down. Ok here is one of
the huge differences between Johnny and me right now. Wherever I see an obstacle, he sees an opportunity. I saw a 2 set with the blonde and
black haired chicks and I thought it was an obstacle because it was a seated set and all the booths/chairs were for reserved booths. I ended
up opening and it went awesome. I thought I couldn’t talk to HBRed because we had already met in the elevator, but he told me to open.
And WOW did that sell go well. What I learned was that there are opportunities everywhere. Oh yea before I forget to write it down,
it’s also important to figure out logistics. Who is the guy in relation to the girls because I had forgot to do that with a mixed 3
set and I assumed that one of the girls and guys were together.

Last set of the night: Everything has started to make sense. I was forgetting some things here and there, but all I needed was more field
time and experience. Everything came together throughout the night. I was seated back at the booth and Johnny was in it and he told me to
go around. He followed me and I saw a 2 set. I didn’t want to do it because they were on the dance floor, but not exactly dancing. Like I
mentioned earlier, Johnny saw opportunities and I saw obstacles. These past two nights were supposed to be where the training wheels fell
off, but I’m so glad he was there. I went in direct with HBMagenta she was an African girl and when the lights came on, I saw she had Magenta
hair! I couldn’t see with the lights off.

JUGGERNAUT: Hey, I just had to tell you that you are sexy as FUCK. And I had to talk to you. Hi, my name is Wayne.

HBMagenta: You are sexy as fuck too. Or some variant (fuck yea, I’m in.) I go directly into comfort. I BT spike a little bit and mainly stuck
in comfort. Eventually when I felt like enough time has passed, I started going HARDCORE direct. Thanks for Showtime for telling me this
earlier. He told me that Latin and African girls respond VERY well to direct and liked it hardcore because they’re very sexual. I stared
leading hardcore too and telling her what to do. I made sure to be the man.

Juggernaut: I love the way that you feel up against my body.
Juggernaut: You’re making me so hard right now, I’m not going to be
able to control myself.
I start kino escalating hardcore too. I start using Chris Allen’s
dance moves and spins. Fucking awesome advice because it was so
practical. I just start leading. I caress her ass and her hips. I
massage her shoulders and arms while verbally escalating. I start
kissing her on her cheek. And eventually I start going for a kiss close.

HBMagenta: You better not. Otherwise I’d punish you.
Juggernaut: Maybe I’d like that.

HBMagenta: I’m a lady, I don’t kiss on the dance floor.
Then I remembered what I learned today about how girls sometimes won’t
kiss in front of their friends because of their ASD. It was a cue for
me to isolate.

Juggernaut: I won’t make you do anything that you won’t regret. Blah
blah blah. I want to get to know you a little bit better, let’s go
back to my booth.

I grab her hands. I had so much compliance and everything. Squeezing me back and her just feeling up on my body. I sit her down and she
puts her hands on my leg and starts rubbing it. I tell her about how that my legs were solid muscle and she said she knew. I continue to
kino and I rub her hands and arms. Then, I caress her HUGE ASS. Damn that shit was HUGE. Blah blah blah I forgot what the hell I did
exactly, but I pull her into me and we kiss. Fastforward, I suggest a Day2, I # close. Comfort build some more and it was closing time. I
stand her up and we kiss goodbye and hug and all that good stuff. Remember the set where the guy had told me to leave? I looked over in
HBShortie’s direction. Their entire group saw me kissing this black girl with their mouths wide open thinking, “Who the fuck is that pimp
ass Asian guy kissing a black girl?” They were shocked. Oh yea, Johnny came in and winged for me. He took the other black chick and kissed
her too. That guy is a pimp. He was 3 for 3 on kiss closes. I only saw two of them, but I’ll take his word on the 3rd one.  So actually,
they were thinking to themselves, “Who the fuck are these two pimp ass Asian guys kissing black girls?” It was fucking awesome and I felt so
powerful at that time.

Another thing that I want to mention was that I asked HBMagenta when she knew she liked me after we kissed. She told me that I was very
different from the way the other guys approached her. So check this out: While we were leaving, Scholar came back and sat down and
HBMagenta recognized him. It turned out he approached them a minute before I did and stalled. So I guess it was a DHV for me because he
screwed up. I had no idea! LOL.

During the debrief, I got great advice not only in pickup, but how to handle situations in my life. For example, I’ve been having some
problems with my roommates which I won’t talk about here, but it was very helpful. I felt like this bootcamp was more than just on picking
up chicks, but it was so relevant to how to make my life better. I really appreciated their support and received great guidance.

In summary, this bootcamp was worth every penny. I’ve always had a hard time putting all the material that I learned together and never
had a clear direction. With this, I’ve learned so much and I can finally say I’m on the right path. There were so many things that
changed like body language, technique, etc. Another great thing about the ABCs model is that it adapts to everything. You can go direct, you
can go indirect. The BLP I learned was so useful in not only escalating with the girl, but also helpful in taking care of cock
blocks and friends. I didn’t even worry about group dynamics for the most part unless it got huge and I had a protective AMOG to deal with.
I did more mixed sets in this bootcamp than I’ve ever done in the past 7 months. I can talk about the things I’ve learned, the things I’ve
accomplished and all that, but it doesn’t equate to what I got out of the bootcamp. I mean I don’t know what else to say except that I feel
so powerful I can’t describe it with words.

Next San Francisco Bootcamp: This weekend! 02/29-03/02
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