My thoughts on Day Game.
I hung out with London Soul last night, who is an instructor for Love Systems / Mystery Method who specializes in teaching Day Game Seminars, and he really got me thinking.
I’ve always known that the highest quality women don’t frequent nightclubs on a regular basis, and that really amazing girls are better found during the day, however, something keeps drawing me to nightclubs and bars. I personally hate clubs. I hate the fact that they don’t start until 11pm, when I’d rather be in bed or at home. I don’t like the loud music, the smoke, paying cover, lines, or any of the bullshit. Yet I keep going to them.
Girls in clubs tend to have A.D.D. which I can’t stand, and when guys start drinking they all think they’re superman, which is annoying. So why do I keep going? Well…that’s where women are, and that’s where they go to socialize.
But then I realized, all three of the girls I’m dating right now, I met during the day. One girl I met at the airport, another at a clothing store, and the third while eating at a restaurant. Sure, I meet tons of girls when I go out at night, it’s pretty easy to get 5 or even 10 phone numbers, but it’s funny if you think about it…how is it that out of 10 phone numbers, there’s a good chance that none will translate into anything?
I hear this ALL THE TIME, guys go out in field, collect phone numbers, and every single number flakes or sizzles out. How is that possible? You would think that out of 20 phone numbers you’d have your hands full with multiple girlfriends and fuck buddies right? But that’s hardly ever the case with nightgame. However, with day game, it seems that your odds of translating a number into a date are more like 70%, which is a hell of a lot better than 2% which most guys seem to be getting with night game. So by thoughts are:
1. Night game - (night clubs and bars) are great for getting a lot of sets under your belt, ideal if you’re a beginer since there are a lot of women expecting to get approached and hit on.
2. Night game is great for learning and practicing attraction game, such as being high energy, rapid kino esclation, dhvs, and pumping buying tempature.
3. Day game is better for meeting quality down to earth women that you can have real conversations and realationships with. However, there won’t be as many sets to approach.
4. Day game requires strong comfort game and very minimal attraction game.
5. What’s even better than both Night game and Day game is Social Circle game. Which includes birthday parties (not at a club), gatherings at people’s houses, dinners, and other events.
6. Social Cirlce game is a horrible place to practice game, so don’t risk burning and messing up your friend circle until you’ve practiced on stragers at nightclubs first.
Game Plan: I think the ideal timeline for pick up artist training would be as followed:
0-6 months - Spend this time doing night game, get 1,000 sets under your belt and rid your approach anxiety. Use this time to practice game, catch up on social experience, and go for same night lays.
6-12 months - Convert to day game, and start doing quality sets instead of quanity. Use this time to work on your natural and situational game, making geniune connections rapidly, and having long term realtionships.
12+ months - Use your skills that you aquired from night game and day game to build up your social circle, you can continue to add girls into your circle by doing both day and night game. Use this time to enjoy friendships, having multiple women in your life, and building a substainable lifestyle filled with beautiful women.
Conclusion: You need to learn how to crawl before you can walk, and walk before you run. There isn’t a better method hands down, but they do have different strengths. Figure out what your personality enjoys the best, day or night. And realize that even though social circle game is a great end result, you have to learn how to night game and/or day game before expecting to have solid results from it. So if you’ve been in the game for less than 6 months, or have done less than 1,000 sets, grind your teeth at night clubs and bars to get your experience in.
But if you’ve been in the game for over 6 months AND have done more than 1,000 sets, day game is where it’s at. If you havn’t try it, start. I’ll write up an article on some tactics and techniques for day game another day, but for now, realize that everything you’ve learned for night game is transferable expect you want to slow the fuck down, lower your energy to match hers, take the time to properly ground the reason why you’re approaching her, and spend the majoirty of your time in comfort instead of attraction. Also you want to instant date as much as possbile, and move her around logistically often. The more places you go together, such as coffee shop, then bookstore, then park, then to eat, the more she feels like she knows you and the longer she feels like she’s known you. The reason why most bootcamps focus on night game is because there’s a lot of sets to practice on. We’d done day game before on bootcamps and the problem is that with 4-6 students, they may only get to do one set an hour, instead of three or four. Plus most students that take bootcamps have done less than 1,000 sets anyways, so night game is definetely the place to start. But it’s nice to know that structure is the same and all the knowledge and skills and transferable from night to day.
Good luck out there, and definetely give day game a shot, you’ll be happy that you did.