Johnny Wolf's PUA Blog

Hey guys, it’s been a few months since I wrote up an openers of the month post, but here we go again!

Opener #1:

Would you ever want to make more money than your boyfriend?

(let her answer, acknowledge it, then move on to the background)

Background: Well the reason I ask is my friend Lisa, just got a a huge promotion at work and she now makes more than her boyfriend. They’ve been together for over a year and he’s always made more than her, but now that she picking up the dinner tab once in a while, she’s afraid he’ll feel emasculated. What would you do?

(Banter, then transition into a demonstration of high value story)

DHV Story: Well, I remember with my ex girlfriend, I’d pay for dinner most of the time, which was cool because I made more than her, but she would do little things to keep things balanced, like pay for dessert, or buy me gifts randomly.

(then transition into a qualification question to see if she meets your standards)

Qualification: So what’s the nicest thing you’ve ever bought for a guy?

Opener #2

Hey have you ever heard that song by Madonna, Justify my love?

(let her answer, acknowledge it, then move on to the background)

Background: Well my friend Laura wants to do to a striptease for her and her boyfriend’s anniversary, and we’ve been trying to figure out what the best songs are for it. I suggested Justify My Love since it has a really sexy, slow beat, and the lyrics are really hot, like “Talk to me….tell me your dreams….am I in them?”

(banter for a bit, then go into a qualification question to get her to invest)

Lite Qualification/Investment: So what other songs do you think we should add to the list?

From here you can talk about open threads such as strip teases, good things to do on an anniversary, and music.