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Hey guys, I wanted to share this review that one of my students from last weekends bootcamp up in San Francisco wrote. He was a great kid with zero experience that ended up making out with a hot white girl on the second night. They made out for hours that night, which was…….well just read it, i’ll let him explain.

Written by suave (on the forums)

I’ve been waiting to write this bootcamp report for the longest time, but now I finally get to write one after getting back from NYC.

to talk briefly about my background, I grew up in Asia up until high school and only got to came to the states 5ish years ago. I’ve always been the go-getter and the one who always has to achieve what he wants. for the past couple years, relationships came by pretty easily so I didn’t really feel the need to game anyone. but it was after I broke up with my most recent one that I felt the need to game. and it was after reading The Game and about the pua community did I finally feel compelled to take this bootcamp. in terms of experience, before this bootcamp, I was as novice as anyone could get. I hadn’t really talked to any strangers in clubs or tried to. I didn’t even know what an opener was before reading The Game and never got numbers from anyone, but in the back of my mind I always thought someday that perfect woman will come by and it will just happen naturally. ok, enough with my background.

Day 1:
We went to a rather small club/bar/lounge. when we first went in i was a bit overwhelmed because of the sheer size of the club, meaning whatever I did there could probably be seen by everyone else there, and because the majority of them were guys and there were hardly any all-girls sets.
I wanted to warm up so I just started talking to random guys there to see what’s up and that got me to transition that into talking to the girls in the club.
now, I have very little to no approach anxiety and I proved that by approaching every single that Kevin asked me to. Throughout the night, I opened around 20-25 sets and the first several sets I opened went no where. One girl I wasn’t even talking to pushed me out of her set when I opened her friend. It was fun though. One thing I did was set I plowed through every single set to see how far I could go regardless of what they said or their reaction to my presence in their set. By the end of the night I got 2 numbers and gave out my number to one because she didn’t have her phone with her and got to the point where I didn’t have any more sets to open. This was pretty damn off the hook for me because I knew I tried my best and got numbers.

sticking points: I didn’t transition from my opener to other things as I oftentimes dwelled on my openers. I didn’t demonstrate DHVs enough. When I was in a set I tended to ask too many questions instead of me making statements and having them lead our conversations. I also noticed that I didn’t kino as much.

Day 2:
We went to a bigger club/lounge than the one we went to the night before. The very first girl I saw, I opened spontaneously and she seemed really receptive and I invited her to our table and told her I’d talk to her later that night. The first floor was rather empty because the night seemed to have just started so we went up stairs to warm up. I didn’t even know this 3 set in the corner but Kevin pushed me into them and that’s when the night started. There was a white HB 8 (TN) and two Asian girls. Initially, I couldn’t even decide who my target was, but I found myself talking to TN more. Instantly, we had common things to talk about because I’m from out of state and she was from tennessee and her friends were from guam and another out of state. I transitioned to a new topic every time I noticed there a sign of our convo stalling. When I sensed that I warmed the set enough, I invited them downstairs to have some drinks. Even as we were going downstairs, I didn’t really get the strong feeling that TN was my target, but I instinctively pulled her out of the set once we got downstairs. Sitting side by side, we talked about everything from childhood to music and food. Her friends came up to her multiple times to check to see if she’s doing okay or to possibly pull her out, and it was clear that they were not having as good a time she was having. Johnny taught us how to handle situations like that and it was money when I used it in that exact situation, especially when I knew that TN wanted to stay with me. After we had our drinks, she wanted to dance upstairs, and up we went. As we were dancing, I could definitely feel that she was attracted to me as I was to her. After a while, the music upstairs was not really conducive to dancing, so we made out. That was the entire night. We danced, talked more, made out, and I got her number. Because she drove her friends to the club and had to drive them back, we couldn’t really take it to the next level, but it was still mind-boggling for me.

Day 3:
Off we went day gaming in SF. Johnny taught us the basics and we applied what we learned immediately. The first set I approached turned out she was from France. I took French in high school and have been there couple times. The lame attempt on my part in showing off my French made her laugh and I transitioned that into getting to know her more and eventually her number. Throughout the day, I approached other sets and they either didn’t speak good English or didn’t really want to get bothered. Later that night, we got on L Train for our alumni dinner. Another bootcamp student was standing right next to this HB9 and I told Johnny and Kevin: “if I were there, I would totally approach her.” Johnny called him over and I went right in. It was probably the most interesting set I opened because she was from Spain and pretty much didn’t understand anything I was saying. I was going to be in NYC that weekend so I suggested we hang out once we come back but she told me she is going back to Spain that weekend and said if I had been here that weekend she would have chilled with me. I still managed to get her MSN and we parted our ways.

Overall, my bootcamp was a transcending experience that opened my eyes. All the tactics and skills Johnny instilled in us were subtle but extremely powerful and I’m grateful for what I learned during my bootcamp.

Johnny Wolf: Thanks a lot for really trying to make sure we absorb everything being taught, especially, “I’m curious,” haha. The way the bootcamp was structured, short lecture and a lot more practice sessions, was the way to go and I really do respect the skills that you developed that led you to become who you are today and your advice for me. Thanks a bunch again and keep it real.

Kevin: Throughout bootcamp, I worked with you most of the time and I truly had a blast working with you. To me you are my big bro who keeps encouraging me to look forward and giving me constructive criticism. Thank you so much for everything during the bootcamp and I hope we sarge together in the near future!

To anyone who is considering bootcamp, seriously, this is THE transformational experience and something you will look back on and consider it as the turning point in your life.
Thank you again for Johnny and Kevin for making the bootcamp filled with fun and excitement and, of course, life-changing.

YOU ARE WELCOME! By the way, Kevin is our new intern and customer service rep. He took the bootcamp with the ABCs of Attraction twice! Once 7 months ago with me as the lead instructor, and a 2nd time this past summer with JT aka the Asian Playboy. His skills have improved so much, that we are now training him to become an approach coach. But right now he’s still an intern on our 2 month challenge to mastery!

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