My fifteen minute kiss close gambit,really is easy to do and extremely powerful if you do it right. There are a couple varations, but they all rely on accomplishing a few key things within the first 15 minutes.
1. Stick your approach, be attractive before you walk up. Do this by working on your passive value, including body language, fashion, smile, eye contact, and voice tonality.
2. Pump up her BT (buying tempature) have fun and get her out of a logical state. Humor is the easiest way to do this, teasing is good, and so are non-verbal BT spikes.
3. Build just enough comfort and connection. My favorite way to do this is through comfort kino. While talking, I systematically introduce non-sexual kino, so she gets comfortable with me touching her.
4. Go for the kiss. At this point, I usually can just verbally go into D (direct interest and intention) lock eyes and kiss, but if I want to do something more valuable, I’ll do one of my kiss close gambits such as the Wolf Trap.
How to do the Wolf Trap:
This is much better shown in person, but the basics of it are, you bring up the topic of what sexual tension is.
Example: “Hey do you feel that…is that sexual tension building between us? *Smile* Actually, what exactly is sexual tension…like how would you define it?”
Her: she’ll either say I dunno, or she’ll have some type of answer
You: Well whatever it is, there seems to be only two ways to break it once it starts building.
Her: What is that? (or whatever she says, just move on with it)
You: The first is obviously to act on it, and the second, is to laugh. What always happens on one person will smile and laugh when it starts building up too intensely, and it breaks. Here, let’s try it, you’ll see.
Her: She’ll respond here and there, but just acknowledge her and move on.
You: Okay the only rule is we’re not allowed to kiss each other k? So don’t let your lips touch mine. Here give me your hands. *Start holding hands while maintaining eye contact, and slowly move closer like you’re almost going to kiss.*
DO NOT KISS HER. (if you do, you’ll lose rapport and trust)
Let the sexual tension build, and go in about 85% slowly…as soon as one of you two laughs (usually her) break away, let go of her hands, and laugh with her. Say: Haha! I told you so! Look you broke it!
Then say: “Okay let’s do it again, the cool thing is the 2nd time you do it, you can go in closer before someone laughs”
This time, you didn’t promise her or make her promise not to kiss…so it’s fair game. But I still like to make her be the one to kiss me first. This time i’ll go in 90% and not laugh….she either has to break it, or she’ll act on it.
I’ve never had to go through more than 3 rounds of this to kiss close. And so far i’ve had a 100% success rate on this working. I’ve only taught it to a handful of bootcamp students, and they have all gotten kiss closes with it as well! Enjoy the Wolf Trap, and the 15 minute kiss close stack.
Written by Johnny Wolf
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