Johnny Wolf's PUA Blog

Some of you guys are curious what my day to day life is out here in regards to women and pick up. So I figure I’d write up a field report. I’m currently working on lifestyle “game” and building a life that makes me happy, is fulfilling and is surrounded by beautiful women.

Two days ago:

I met two cute English girls on the dive boat, they weren’t a part of my group, and I really had no reason to talk to them, so it was technically a cold approach. However, I had purposely demonstrated leader of men qualities but being the one to deliver the welcome and warnings message to everyone on the boat. It goes something like “Attention everyone, and Welcome to ___________, keep your arms and legs inside the boat, and yada yada.”

I geared up and went scuba diving in separate groups, and after wards just asked them how their dive was an if they saw anything cool. Basic small talk, but then I asked her:

Wanna learn how to ride a motorbike?

Like every girl I’ve asked, they’ve all said, omg yes that would be fun, and I told her to meet me back here in 1 hour after we showered and changed. She showed up with three other girls, the English girl she was with and two Australian chicks.

Teaching a girl how a new skill, especially one that is potentially dangerous is both exciting and attractive. It’s also really funny to watch girls in their bikinis try to hold on to you an not fall off.

The second part of the day2 I suggested:

Let’s go swim with sharks.

The usual response is oh my god, really? Are you crazy, are they dangerous? And my answer is Yes, Yes, and Yes. But it’s fun, so let’s do it.

Swimming with sharks for the first time is something that girls will never forget. And there is an exciting danger feel to it. Plus it’s something that I enjoy doing anyways, so I might as well take along some beautiful girls to keep me company.

There is a hidden beach not on the maps, that only locals know about, and is infested with black tip sharks that you can see while snorkeling in somewhat shallow waters.

If you can do a fun, exciting thing with a girl, and show her something new, she’ll always remember you.

The Coconut:

After wards the girls bought me some coconuts to drink and the girls offered to buy me dinner, but I already had plans that night to play poker with the guys so I told them to meet me tomorrow at 1pm instead so we could look at the pictures we took.

The Day 3:

We met up and I brought also one of my friends (wing) this time, we all went back to my jungle hut to listen to music, look at the pictures and hang out. Unfortunately even though my wing is a good looking Swedish guy, he has no game and no confidence with girls.

Make sure you have fun, cool, confident (not cocky or annoying) guys you can wing with. It can really make or break a deal if she keeps bringing along her friends.

After wards the girls wanted to hang out more, go to the beach together, then a night club later that night, but I said no because I wanted to go scuba diving instead. =)

What I learned:

I’m finally at a point where my life really is filled with awesome girls that I can meet whenever I want, but I finally have better things to do than chase them. I used to never say no to a girl, but now it’s kind of fun. Back in the U.S. Every time I would meet a girl with a British or Australian accent I thought she was exotic and charming, but now it’s just common. Also I realized that it would be helpful to have other guy friends with game out here.

I follow the ABC’s so I know where I am in an interaction with a girl, but now it’s a lot more naturalized into my lifestyle.

A – Attract and Approach, having common interests makes it easy to approach. Instead of cold approaching at a bar or a club, join a group that has beautiful girls and just meet them there. Become a respected member of the group with a power position so you’ll have an instant DHV such as leader of men. (meetup.com, outdoors clubs, scuba diving club, classes, yoga, massage, volunteering, etc)

B – Buying Temperature & Banter - The activities I choose to do already pump up buying temperature for me, scuba diving, riding motorbikes, and swimming with sharks is already enough, I just have to mention them. Other things you can do include (improv classes, snowboarding, skydiving, surfing, etc)

C – Comfort and Connection – Having a common interest and a group membership automatically give you comfort and it’s easy to connect with you both love the same thing. So join a group like volunteering, environmental groups, hiking, kayaking, arts, salsa, dancing, or anything you care about)

D – Direct Interest and Intention – This part some come naturally and not forced. Whenever alcohol is involved such as at a nightclub or a bar, it just happens, and you can escalate a lot faster, during the day, you take your time and be more chilled out about it. Whenever I want to go “D” with a girl, all I do is invite her out for some drinks later that night, ask her to walk on the beach with me, hold hands and kiss her. Most naturals don’t make a big deal about going “D” with a girl, and just enjoy their activities during the day with a girl as normal, and make their move with the time is right.

E- Escalation and Extraction – My jungle hut is really close to the bars and clubs so it’s easy to extract. I have a fridge with some drinks in it so I just say “lets go have another drink at my bungalow” or “lets go look at the pictures” or whatever. By this time the girl has already been to my place before so it’s easy to get them back again. The biggest trick is to have solid wings to keep her friends having fun and occupied as wel.

F – Fun or Fake – This is where lifestyle really is important. I’m still working on mine and am about halfway through becoming a dive master, which is a leadership position in scuba diving. I’m also working out by swimming everyday and doing Muay Thai twice a week. So far I’ve lost 17 lbs being here. I also finally have something better to do than pick up women, something that I find more rewarding and more enjoyable, yet it’s nice to know that with a little effort I still get laid whenever I want, and I get to hang out with attractive girls from around the world and learn about their cultures and lives while swimming with sharks.

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf