There are two types of guys that are extremely frustrated:
1. The guy that doesn’t know how to approach and talk to women at all.
2. Guys that get stuck in the friend zone and are always just friends.
It’s funny…you would think the first guy is worse off, since he’s usually the one standing around not talking to women at all. He’s the guy that sits at the bar or at the party not talking to anyone at all.
The second guy is always with attractive women, and can easily meet others.
Question: Who is more sexually frustrated?
I think it’s the second guy. The guy that doesn’t have women in his life in the first place, doesn’t feel like he had a shot anyways, but the second guy always feels like he’s soooo close. Until one day the girl starts telling him about some hot guy she met.
The worst feeling in the world is standing by and listening to her talk about a hotter guy that she desperately wants to hook up with. This is because it makes us feel like we are not men. Inside our heads we’re thinking, what the fuck, what about me.
Which guy are you or were you before you found the PUA community, and which guy do you think is worse off? Leave a comment.
THis is a false conception. I have a friend here in dc who has 50+ female friends. He’s ALREADY a cool guy to begin with before he join the community. After he join the community, that teaches him to become a little more aggressive, he now bang 10 chicks a month.
A guy that already has 50+ female friends is a GOOD THING. It means he’s way more socially savy than some random nerd who just join.
I can tell you for sure that the first guy is much better off. Having severe low selfesteem and low selfconfidence much of my life I was the first guy. Thru much anguish I learded to be the second guy; trust worthy, loyal, concerned, dependable, funny, you know the best friend. This felt much better than always being alone. Then exactly that happened one or the other of them eventually began telling me how hot some other guy was. Describing in much detail how hot he made her feel and what all she would like to do to him. This was way worse… Just my opinion…Thanks, Rod S…
You both make a good point.
It’s frustrating on both ends.
Personally, I love having female friends. Female friends often time are way more fun to hangout with than some random community guys. Secondly, this totally is against the abundance mentality. Every single one of my female friend, i can point out some random girls that is hotter than them so if i cant fuck them, i really couldnt give a shit.
On the other hand, the idea of afcadam rolls into the venue with 50 chicks and passive gaming, now that’s money. To have true abundance, you have to realize you do NOT have to fuck every single girls you see/friends with imo.
The friend zone - its more annoying!
When I see guys in the friends zone and say to myself ‘Dude u at least have the balls to open and get past the first barrier. But then u screwed up with no game’. And I see the same guy again with another/same chicks and I say ‘Aww boy..U need a hard kick on ur ass from Johnny Wolf to get it swingin lol” To the guy in no zone - either he’s an MPUA with something more important to do or a nerd who needs serious therapy.