Have you ever ran out of things to say with a girl? Or have you ever had problems building attraction?
A good DHV/Attraction Switch Story can solve both of these problems. The best thing about DHV (demonstration of high value) stories is that you can write them out before hand, so they’re perfect when you go out and meet a hot girl. At the ABC’s of Attraction we have all of our bootcamp students write out a minimum of five DHV stories as part of the pre-bootcamp prep package that we send them when they put down their deposit. In it there is a list of 20 of the best Attraction Switches, a story board layout with fill in the blanks for students to make their own stories.
However the two complaints we often hear from guys in the PUA Community are either, “I don’t know what to say” or “I don’t have any interesting stories to tell.” One big problem is obviously that many guys aren’t actually living high value, attractive life styles to begin with and have little or no experience doing wild interesting things. This is a lifestyle problem if this is the case. However, the good news is most students actually do have intresting things in their lives! Sometimes it takes a lot of digging from professions like myself, but I’ve never had a student have nothing interesting to write a DHV story about. A student in San Francisco claimed he couldn’t think of anything. Turned out that as a hobby he goes Kite Sailing every weekend, that’s cool! Another student that same weekend said his life is boring, but turns out he lives on a Navy Base which is filled with fighter planes, guns, and other dangerous stuff. We’ve had guys that have been sky diving, rock climbing, kayaking, surfing, and guys that have saved people’s lives that think they have nothing to write about.
So here’s an example of my latest DHV Story. It’s absolutely true, made to sound more dramatic than it actually was, and contains five DHV’s, but done so without bragging. Can you guess which ones they are?
“The craziest thing happened to me a few days ago. An 18 month old baby girl was drowning…well actually, she was fine. It was her daddy that was drowning, and he was holding her above his head, barely above water.
I was snorkeling with two German girls that wanted to see a shark for their first time. We swam out to a little bay called Aow Leuk in Koh Tao where I know baby black tip reef sharks live until they’re big enough to swim out to the ocean on their own.
As we were swimming closer to the secret spot, I noticed a man in panic, splashing around freaking out. I rushed as fast as I could to help and placed the baby girl over my shoulder for safety. But she wasn’t the one who was in danger. I looked into her baby blue eyes and she was calm…it was her father that needed saving. He was in panic and lost all of his breath and strength trying to get his little girl to the shore.
Turns out he didn’t know sharks lived in this bay and freaked out when he saw one. Luckily both him and his little girl made it back safely with a little help from me. I’m just really glad and fortunate that to become a dive master and work at a scuba diving resort, they made me first train as a rescue diver and learn CPR. The funny thing was, while most people including him swim away from sharks, some people like me swim towards them. What do you think you would have done if you were in that situation?”
Note: The delivery of DHV stories, including when to pause, what words to emphasize and which ones to not make a big deal over are extremely important. During the DHV story it is also a great time to use kino (touch) to connect, eye contact, take aways, and other subtle body language to make the DHV story even more powerful.
If you don’t have a list of at least five DHV stories written up already, start working on them today. If you need more help and want a professional to go over your stories with you, teach you how to cut out all the bullshit that doesn’t get you laid, while making the good points even better, then put down your deposit early for the next bootcamp so you’ll have plenty of time to work on your pre-bootcamp prep package for maximum results.
Warm Regards,
Johnny Wolf
www.ABCsofAttraction.com – Bootcamp Program Schedule
Written by Johnny Wolf
Topics: Secrets