Johnny Wolf's PUA Blog

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I’m hesitant to call this a lay report, because I find it kind of degrading to women. But at the same time, LR’s provide less experienced guys extremely valuable insight on how sexual relationships start.

One of the best ways to become better with women is to model yourself and your behaviors based on real experiences and real results. So here it goes.

Approach: Situational. She was alone in front of a shop looking at a bbq across the street.

Instant date: I told her it was my friend’s bbq and that she was invited to come.

Attraction: Leader of Men - Group of cool friends, having fun. Pre-selected by women - I was there on a date with a German girl, also there were other attractive girls there that I introduced her to. Adventurous Man - I told her I was working here as a Divemaster.

Social Circle Game:

Fast forward two weeks, I had invited her out a few times, once to play board games at my friends house, and once to hang out with my group to go eat. This is my standard social circle game that I perfected in Los Angeles, bringing it here to Thailand.

There are other attractive white girls in my group, so it’s comfortable and a built in dhv. I ended up breaking up with the other girl because I realized she was too clingy. I actually told her “Let’s just be friends.”

Logistics:

A few days later, I had the Swedish girl come to a bar near my bungalow, and took her for a walk on the beach where we made out, and ended up back at my place. We made out, I sucked on her tits, but she didn’t want to have sex. She has a boyfriend back in Sweden.

Lesson Learned:

Back in my PUA days,. I would have pushed the lay that night as far as I could go, and then have been pissed off or disappointed if it didn’t go through. In pick up, if you don’t close that night, the buying temperature wears off, the alcohol is gone, and she doesn’t return your calls or see you again.

But now, I don’t game or trick girls into anything, I build real comfort and solid attraction. I knew that I could just go to sleep next to her and we’d end up having sex sooner or later. Last night, we had sex, and it was fantastic. She’s a hot 19 year old blonde white girl with a skinny waist, perfect tits, and a beautiful face.

What I’ve been trying to learn for myself, I finally accomplished. I don’t know if I could have done it if I never learned game in the first place and gotten the basics down. Also being a pick up artist gives you tons of experience, so if you’re relatively inexperienced still, go for it and push till it breaks. But I’m happy I’ve gotten beyond pick up now and into real attraction.

Update: It’s been over a month now and we’re still seeing each other and having sex regularly. Life is good. =)

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf