It’s hard not to come off as needy sometimes, especially when you actually are feeling the need for more. I’ve been dating this awesome Swedish girl for the last six weeks and even though things are great, the AFC inside of me keeps wanting more.
If you ever feel the following needs, stop yourself:
Needing to make her your girlfriend.
Needing to tell her the truth about something in your past.
Needing to tell her you love her.
Needing to plan out the future with her.
Thinking ahead and planning the next two vacations or days off together.
Urning for her touch or embrace.
Needing to hold her hand and kiss her in public.
Wanting to talk about where this relationship is going.
It’s easy to start feeling this way. Especially if it’s been a while since you’ve been in a long term relationship (LTR) and miss that feeling of being loved, and having the stability of knowing that you have a girlfriend. Maybe you just want to prove to yourself and the world that you can score a hot chick. Whatever the reason, stop yourself.
For me personally, I keep having to hold myself back, knowing that the worse thing in the world, the most unattractive thing is a needy guy. We’re supposed to be the strong ones. The trick to getting yourself into a LTR is to let her trap you into a corner and make her want it first. For now, do as I’m doing, keep enjoying our lives, have outside hobbies, keep giving her great sex, and see what happens.
Warm Regards,
Johnny Wolf
Hey man
very interesting post here, at first I thought you were going a bit too far (can’t touch her?…), but thinking back it does make sense. The fact that she initiates everything or almost everything first does indeed work wonders, I guess the true challenge is learning patience and timing.
Hope this girl takes good care of you.
Have fun!
HANUMAN
Constantly talking about a relationship willckill your game.
I was always creeping girls out with my neediness reading this helped me.