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This is a question I sometimes ask my students during bootcamp. Usually it comes on the third night, after I’ve taught them what attraction is and how to demonstrate it to a woman. I go over the importance of being a real man, and being able to give a woman an orgasm.

Ask yourself this now:

“Why would a woman want to sleep with me?”

Really take your time and put yourself in a beautiful, attractive woman’s point of view. Imagine that you are the type of woman you are going after. Now imagine what you actually have to offer her?

To be honest, if I asked myself this question four years ago, I wouldn’t have a good answer. And guys I’ve asked this to, don’t have a good answer either. But knowing this, and truly humbling yourself to open up and better yourself is the key to becoming that guy she actually wants to sleep with.

To help you guys out, here is my private, personal response to the above question:

1. I am strong and confident, both physically and mentally – this has been accomplished through years of building myself up and bettering myself both in life and in the gym.

2. I can, and will protect her from harm and from danger – I used to be scared of putting myself in harms way and would avoid dangerous situations and fights. By forcing myself to fight in two semi-professional full contact muay thai matches, I’ve gotten over my fear of confrontation and know I will act when needed.

3. I live an exciting life full of adventure and travel. – My life used to be boring, aside from going out to nightclubs, I never did much. Now I live in various countries, scuba dive, and do other exotic exciting things.

4. I know how to give her an orgasm – I used to think I knew how to give a woman an orgasm, but not until I read the Sex God Method by Daniel Rose and put the methods into practice over and over, did I really understand it and be able to deliver on my promise.

5. I will not be clingy and creepy after we have sex – I used get attached emotionally easily to girls, it’s normal for guys to become needy after sex. But now, I’ve learned to become detached and independent with my emotions. I also have the abundance mentality with woman and sex now.