Here is a little thing that took me years to figure out.
You know that uncomfortable silence you guy with a girl when you are trying to think of something to say? Well, it turns out that there are two types,
1. will make her bored and go away, making you lose the set if you dont think of someting interesting to say.
And the 2nd, will force her to either invest and ask you a question, or kiss you.
The best way to figure out which situation you are in is sadly, only with a lot of personal experience and field time. It is such a fine line between the difference. But here is a few tips that I have learned from my expereicne that may help you.
Tips to tell the difference,
If you are in a situation where she is not going to leave, such as you are on a date, or you are both waiting for mutual friends, assume that she will be the one to invest, simply look her in the eyes, smile, and wait. There is a simulality between sexual tension and uncomfortable silences.
If you are gaming, such as a cold approach, be the one to DHV and be intresting two times, and then on the 3rd time, keep eye contact, and force her to invest.
In my personal experiece,
The last 6 times I have tried this, one of the girls said, okay nice to meet you and left, and the other five of the girls invested and asked me a question and kept up the pace. In a FR I posted on one of the forums, I go into detail on the four girls out of those 6 that I made out with using this simple technique.
Try it out yourself, and remember the next time you are in that uncomfortable silence with a girl, it may be your key to get laid.
Warm Regards,
Johnny Wolf
highly calibrated experience