Here is the dilemma, to get girls to literally beg for you to sleep with them, you have to genuinely not be looking to pick up, f-close, or to have sex with them or even anyone. I went to a party with a good looking wingman last weekend. Girls flocked to him because he is tall, in great shape with a six pack and he’s a good looking white guy. At the end of the night I overheard this girl literally begging him to come home with her. Seriously she said something like “come and sleep in my bed tonight.” When he said no like three times, her friend goes up to him and says, “well if you don’t want to sleep in her bed tonight, you can sleep in mine.”
He rejects both of them, and the first comes back and says, “You can sleep with both of us tonight if you want.”
I’m there thinking, fucking idiot, go and fuck them. Later I asked why he didn’t and he said it was because they knew some mutual friends and he didn’t want to make it awkward. But realistically aside from him being in great shape and good looking, the reason the girls begged him to fuck was because he wasn’t trying to fuck them.
On the flip side, when a guy goes out specifically to game girls, pick up and f-close. Girls can sense it and it becomes unattractive.
So what do you do? It is ironic that becoming a “PUA”, studying game, and learning how to pick up girls, actually makes you less attractive to girls. Going out to pick up makes you less attractive. It is a fucked up thing. So what do I do? I try to keep balance, just like everything in life. The ying and the yang.
First, learn game so you know what to do when the opportunity arises, then forget about it, or at least put it in the back of your mind. Go out with your friends, have fun without the intention of hooking up, but unlike this guy, when the opportunity does pop up, don’t be a pussy and go for it.
Warm Regards,
Johnny Wolf
Written by Johnny Wolf
Topics: Secrets