Johnny Wolf’s Personal PUA Blog - Pick Up Artist Bootcamps

I went shopping for a new Gym Membership the otherday, and realized something.

Gyms make money by counting on most people to NOT USE them to its fullest potential. They set it up so they give you all the equipment, classes, knowledge, and facilities needed to get in shape, but the one thing they don’t do is call you when you don’t use it. This is what I call accountability.

A basic gym membership is extremely cheap and under priced compared to how much it’s actually worth. (Consider how much it would cost you an even 100 friends to rent a building of that size, buy all the equipment, hire staff, pay utilities, hire instructors for free classes, and maintain it, it would be a lot more than $59 a month)

Facts:

90% of people that sign up for gym memberships don’t use them more than a few times a year.

All gyms can get you in shape if you dedicate yourself and just do it.

Gyms will lose money if everyone that signs up for a membership actually showed up and used it.

So what does this have to do with pick up?

90% of people that study pick up either for free on the internet, or buy a product don’t use it to it’s fullest advantage.

Almost all pick up material out there can get you results with women if you use it correctly and consistently, just like how any piece of exercise equipment can get you in shape.

Most pick up gurus and companies give away a ton of free or sell very low cost material that can get you results if actually used to it to its fullest potential.

Bootcamps and repeat customers wouldn’t be needed if everyone had the motivation, dedication and more importantly self-accountability it takes to become good with women.

Example: You can buy print or eBooks for a very low price, which has tons of information in them, sometimes even more information that would be covered in a three day bootcamp. Then there’s all the different blogs, free content on websites, intro seminars, etc etc that give away a lot of content for free or for a price that is significantly less than what it is worth.

The real reason why gurus and pick up companies don’t mind giving away this information is they know that most people won’t use it to it’s fullest potential. It’s the same reason why a lot of gurus say they don’t care about the people that pirate their products off of a torrent site, they know that those people who don’t pay for it, won’t really benefit from it anyways.

Brad P’s did a fascinating study on the extremely high number of virgins on a popular pick up pirating site and why guys that pirate pick up material don’t ever get laid, even though they have access to every product in the world.

Why Bootcamps Exist and Why they Work

There are a couple reasons why bootcamps get consistent results. First, just the fact that you sign up for the bootcamp, you are admitting to yourself that you need help, and that there is someone that is more knowledgeable out there that can help you. This leaves your Ego checked at the door, which is a huge obstical for most guys.

Second, is the investment. When you invest three days of your life, and thousands of dollars, you are making a commitment to better yourself and you will do whatever is possible to make sure you get your moneys worth by improving.

Third, you have fellow students that are just as committed as you are that you can learn and grown along side with. You look at them and realize that you’re not alone, and others have just as much difficultly, if not more with women. If they can do it, you can do it.

Fourth, you can’t give yourself excuses because your instructor won’t let you. If you have a good instructor, he will truly care about you and will want to see you reach your potential, so there is no way in hell he’s going to let you bitch out and give excuses. He’ll push you to your limits and break you if he has to. Then he’ll rebuild you stronger than ever.

Fifth, you will learn an entire structure from beginning to end. This is something that guys have a really hard time piecing together on their own, is a complete structure. When you read or watch material, they are for specific parts of pick up, example, amogging, frame control, openers, negs, etc. But its really difficult for someone to take all of it and put it into a proper A-Z structure on their own.

Sixth, instructors who have taught a lot of bootcamps (20+) have enough experience to know what they can cut out and what is actually valuable. There is sooo much information out there, but most of it isn’t immediately useful. A good instructor can help you cut out what doesn’t get you lair.

Seventh, top instructors are innovative. Which means, you are learning new fresh material that you can’t find anywhere online or in a book. Even though gurus post articles, tactics and techniques, they normally only share the latest stuff with their bootcamp students. By the time they decide to release it to the public, it’s usually old and dated.

Eighth, accountability. During bootcamp you get specific missions and goals that you must complete. When you’re doing it on your own, you can cheat yourself by telling yourself you understand, without truly understanding it through practice.

Ninth, instructors will point out and correct little things that are seriously holding you back, such as your body language, coming out too needy or desperate, having an ego, or other things that are almost impossible for you to self-correct.

Tenth, bootcamps give you individual tailor made help. Even though there is a predetermined lecture, a good instructor will always personalize it to what you need most, and will spend more time in class and in field to help you with those needs.

Recap:

Yes, you can do it on your own.
If you have the self-motivation, self-dicipline, work ethics, and can instill accountability in yourself, you can do it on your own.
There is plenty of free, or low cost information out there, and most of it works, if you know how to filter and make sense of it all.
However, if you had all of the above requirements, you would most likely be a natural and wouldn’t need pick up in the first place.
Knowing this, you can either break the norm and do it on your own, or you can start saving up for a bootcamp.
Either way, best of luck to you in your journey, we are lucky to have a community to support us.

So what did I do about my gym membership?

I signed up for Gold’s Gym, which is well structured, professional, established, and the clients there have great results, that I can see, since everyone there is ripped and buff, which gives me motivation.

And for accountability, I track my results on my Nintendo Wii fit, which measures weight and BMI and keeps a graph, and I hired a personal trainer who filters all the information out there for me, so I don’t have to read a ton of contradictory stuff myself and figure it out, he can just tell me what to do and how to do it correctly.

So what did I do about pick up?

I read every thing I could find. I watched every pick up dvd I could get my hands on. I spent six months wasting my time on mASF. I got really active on my local lair. I found a couple of wings and went sarging three times a week. I got pretty decent on my own. Then I took a bootcamp in Febuary of 2006, had a really amazing instructor and experience, and finally all the pieces of the puzzle started coming together.

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf

I hung out with London Soul last night, who is an instructor for Love Systems / Mystery Method who specializes in teaching Day Game Seminars, and he really got me thinking.

I’ve always known that the highest quality women don’t frequent nightclubs on a regular basis, and that really amazing girls are better found during the day, however, something keeps drawing me to nightclubs and bars. I personally hate clubs. I hate the fact that they don’t start until 11pm, when I’d rather be in bed or at home. I don’t like the loud music, the smoke, paying cover, lines, or any of the bullshit. Yet I keep going to them.

Girls in clubs tend to have A.D.D. which I can’t stand, and when guys start drinking they all think they’re superman, which is annoying. So why do I keep going? Well…that’s where women are, and that’s where they go to socialize.

But then I realized, all three of the girls I’m dating right now, I met during the day. One girl I met at the airport, another at a clothing store, and the third while eating at a restaurant. Sure, I meet tons of girls when I go out at night, it’s pretty easy to get 5 or even 10 phone numbers, but it’s funny if you think about it…how is it that out of 10 phone numbers, there’s a good chance that none will translate into anything?

I hear this ALL THE TIME, guys go out in field, collect phone numbers, and every single number flakes or sizzles out. How is that possible? You would think that out of 20 phone numbers you’d have your hands full with multiple girlfriends and fuck buddies right? But that’s hardly ever the case with nightgame. However, with day game, it seems that your odds of translating a number into a date are more like 70%, which is a hell of a lot better than 2% which most guys seem to be getting with night game. So by thoughts are:

1. Night game - (night clubs and bars) are great for getting a lot of sets under your belt, ideal if you’re a beginer since there are a lot of women expecting to get approached and hit on.

2. Night game is great for learning and practicing attraction game, such as being high energy, rapid kino esclation, dhvs, and pumping buying tempature.

3. Day game is better for meeting quality down to earth women that you can have real conversations and realationships with. However, there won’t be as many sets to approach.

4. Day game requires strong comfort game and very minimal attraction game.

5. What’s even better than both Night game and Day game is Social Circle game. Which includes birthday parties (not at a club), gatherings at people’s houses, dinners, and other events.

6. Social Cirlce game is a horrible place to practice game, so don’t risk burning and messing up your friend circle until you’ve practiced on stragers at nightclubs first.

Game Plan: I think the ideal timeline for pick up artist training would be as followed:

0-6 months - Spend this time doing night game, get 1,000 sets under your belt and rid your approach anxiety. Use this time to practice game, catch up on social experience, and go for same night lays.

6-12 months - Convert to day game, and start doing quality sets instead of quanity. Use this time to work on your natural and situational game, making geniune connections rapidly, and having long term realtionships.

12+ months - Use your skills that you aquired from night game and day game to build up your social circle, you can continue to add girls into your circle by doing both day and night game. Use this time to enjoy friendships, having multiple women in your life, and building a substainable lifestyle filled with beautiful women.

Conclusion: You need to learn how to crawl before you can walk, and walk before you run. There isn’t a better method hands down, but they do have different strengths. Figure out what your personality enjoys the best, day or night. And realize that even though social circle game is a great end result, you have to learn how to night game and/or day game before expecting to have solid results from it. So if you’ve been in the game for less than 6 months, or have done less than 1,000 sets, grind your teeth at night clubs and bars to get your experience in.

But if you’ve been in the game for over 6 months AND have done more than 1,000 sets, day game is where it’s at. If you havn’t try it, start. I’ll write up an article on some tactics and techniques for day game another day, but for now, realize that everything you’ve learned for night game is transferable expect you want to slow the fuck down, lower your energy to match hers, take the time to properly ground the reason why you’re approaching her, and spend the majoirty of your time in comfort instead of attraction. Also you want to instant date as much as possbile, and move her around logistically often. The more places you go together, such as coffee shop, then bookstore, then park, then to eat, the more she feels like she knows you and the longer she feels like she’s known you. The reason why most bootcamps focus on night game is because there’s a lot of sets to practice on. We’d done day game before on bootcamps and the problem is that with 4-6 students, they may only get to do one set an hour, instead of three or four. Plus most students that take bootcamps have done less than 1,000 sets anyways, so night game is definetely the place to start. But it’s nice to know that structure is the same and all the knowledge and skills and transferable from night to day.

Good luck out there, and definetely give day game a shot, you’ll be happy that you did.

If you have a date planned with a girl at 3pm, and she calls you at noon saying she can still make it, but she’s hanging out with an old friend and wants to catch up with her…she might ask you if it’s okay if you two meet at 6pm instead. She might even make it sound like a good idea, by saying how she’s been telling her friend how much fun you two had on your first date, and how her friend thinks you’re cool and wants to double date with you sometime. Your first response as a nice guy will properly be:

“That’s totally cool, hang out with your friend, and we’ll meet at six, I understand”

But you’d be wrong if you did. It seems harmless at first right? But now she senses weakness in you, and will start pushing your boundries as far as they go. You might get a call at 4pm from her saying that she needs to drive seperately to your friends bbq because she needs to go to an audition after. You might think, “Oh well, better than nothing.” And agree to drive two cars…

But then you’ll get this message 30 minutes later:

“I have good news and bad news, I bought you a gift to bring to your friends bbq, but the bad news is I can’t go. But you can come over for an hour to hang out and pick up the gift.”

You might think, “This kind of sucks, but at least I get to see her for an hour.” And you might agree and start driving there.

But as you’re driving half way there, you’ll get a text saying that she’s really sorry, and that she has to leave now because her aunt is picking her up to take her there. By now, you would have pulled over thinking to yourself, wtf just happened. Did she just play me? So you’ll get angry and finally speak up, you’ll send her a text saying how dissapointed you are in her. But it’ll be too late.

Now she’ll just get mad at you saying that you’re not understanding, and that this is very important for her to meet so and so for her career. Now you’re the bad guy. To make things worse, you might even text her back saying that it’s okay, and that you understand it’s important to her, and that you’re sorry for getting mad.

Don’t.

Just don’t.

Instead, stop being fucking nice. Stop giving a shit about what the other person has going on because she doesn’t give a shit about you. She doesn’t care that you wasted your entire day sitting around. Or that you went out of your way to make plans. If anything, she’ll just think you’re weak.

Don’t be weak. Take away the girl’s power from the start.

First off, realize, she hasn’t earned the right yet for you to care. If she’s not your girlfriend, and especially if you havnt’ slept with her yet, she’s no one to you. She’s not special. She’s just another girl, and there are millions out there.

To really not be needy, date multiple girls, sleep with multiple girls until you do meet someone that proves herself to be special and worthy. She doesn’t deserve your understanging yet, she doesn’t deserve for you to care. It fucking sucks, I know. This happened to me today. And the only reason why I’m not even more emotionally damanged is because:

A. I have another girl that i’m dating going to the BBQ with me instead.
B. I had sex 4 times with a different girl last wednesday, and got a BJ last night. and
C. I’m using this as a learning experience.

I thought she was different, but I was wrong. I was hoping she was special. I was wrong. But now I know.

If we could rewind to the original converstaion at noon. I would have told her:

“Your friend sounds really cool, I’d love to double date with her sometime, but we have plans sweetie, I’ll pick you up at three, make sure you’re home.”

And I would have just left it at that. None of this bullshit would have happened if I did. It’s just another reminder to never revert back to AFC, not even for a moment, not even for a small town girl that seems “different.”

Never be understanding, and fuck being nice.

Hey guys, it’s been a few months since I wrote up an openers of the month post, but here we go again!

Opener #1:

Would you ever want to make more money than your boyfriend?

(let her answer, acknowledge it, then move on to the background)

Background: Well the reason I ask is my friend Lisa, just got a a huge promotion at work and she now makes more than her boyfriend. They’ve been together for over a year and he’s always made more than her, but now that she picking up the dinner tab once in a while, she’s afraid he’ll feel emasculated. What would you do?

(Banter, then transition into a demonstration of high value story)

DHV Story: Well, I remember with my ex girlfriend, I’d pay for dinner most of the time, which was cool because I made more than her, but she would do little things to keep things balanced, like pay for dessert, or buy me gifts randomly.

(then transition into a qualification question to see if she meets your standards)

Qualification: So what’s the nicest thing you’ve ever bought for a guy?

Opener #2

Hey have you ever heard that song by Madonna, Justify my love?

(let her answer, acknowledge it, then move on to the background)

Background: Well my friend Laura wants to do to a striptease for her and her boyfriend’s anniversary, and we’ve been trying to figure out what the best songs are for it. I suggested Justify My Love since it has a really sexy, slow beat, and the lyrics are really hot, like “Talk to me….tell me your dreams….am I in them?”

(banter for a bit, then go into a qualification question to get her to invest)

Lite Qualification/Investment: So what other songs do you think we should add to the list?

From here you can talk about open threads such as strip teases, good things to do on an anniversary, and music.

Hey I just got back from Austin Texas, and all I can say is Yeehaw!

It was my first time in Texas, and we had two students out there for a bootcamp. If you ever visit Austin, check out 6th street for a ton of college bars and 4th street for some really amazing clubs. The coolest thing about Austin is that they have world class clubs, that are on par or even better than LA and Vegas clubs as far as layout and decorations go, but there is no bullshit getting in with lines, and most places don’t even charge cover!

As far as pick up goes, it’s definetely a social circle town, and not a cold approach, same night lay kinda place. People are friendly, but definetely very cliqish. The sharktank you see above is at a club called Qua, where the dance floor is made of glass and there are sharks swiming underneth! Amazing huh?

If you’re reading this and havn’t decided where to go to college yet…..apply to University of Texas at Austin, aka UT. Trust me, you’ll have your best fucking years of life there. And join a frat…fuck it, take the hazing, paid the dues, just do it, it’s a total college town and you’ll love it.

The other best thing about Texas is the BBQ! There was a place near downtown called “The Iron Works” that was really good. But the ultimate texas bbq is 40 miles into the country at a place called “Salt Lick” it’s well worth the drive…just make sure you dedicate half a day to going there, hanging out and eating, since there’s always an hour wait and it’s an hours drive outside of downtown austin.

Get it family style, and for $18.99 you can have your filling of ribs, tri-tip and sasuage with all the sides. It’s basically all you can eat. This is a dry town, so they don’t serve alcohol, so the funny thing is, everyone brings in a cooler filled with their own beers! It’s quite fun actually. If you’re ever in austin, you MUST try this place.

During my most recent bootcamp I taught in San Francisco, all the students and I randomly decided to eat at Carrow’s, which is like a Denny’s for old people. Anyways, since the first night of the bootcamp is when I really like to show my students what is possible, I decided to demo a set during dinner. I really think that live demonstations are a vital part of the bootcamp experience because it allows the student to see the theory in action. However, we do have a policy at the ABC’s of Attraction…we politely eject out of sets after 15 minutes, the reason for that is it gives us enough time to show what is possible, but it doesn’t cut into too much of the student’s night.

So I ran through the ABC’s quickly, kino esclated heavily while building comfort, rapport, and making sure the friend was okay with us, and within 10 minutes, we were standing in the middle of the brightely lit restaurant, holding each other in a warm embrace and kissing. It was a great start to a great weekend bootcamp. Here’s a review and racap of the weekend written by one of the students,

Hey,guys! This is the AlphaZ! I just took the bootcamp with Johnny Wolf and Showtime last weekend. First off, if anybody that is considering taking a bootcamp with the ABCs of attraction team make the investment now, do the homework and know what to expect in the bootcamp! I think that I personally benefit a lot from having a positive mindset going into the bootcamp. As a college student, making this investment wasn’t an easy decision, but I’m glad that I did! The instructors of the ABCs team really took care of me, and I got to meet awesome fellow students who are nothing but nice guys trying to be successful with women. And there is nothing to be ashamed of! I did all my homework and had no approaching anxiety going into the bootcamp, it allowed me to get the most out of the bootcamp and learn what my sticking points are. Now I’m ready to go into the infamous beginner’s hell.

Day 1: The lecture potion of the BC is just eye opening. I thought I knew a lot about the pick up already, but Johnny and Showtime definitely have a lot up their sleeves. Day 1 is about A and B phase. This part is crucial to pick up, the details and subtleties that they demonstrate in the room are something that has to be seen in person. Also, one thing that Jonny mentioned on that day is that: “as puas, we evolve or die.” What allow them to be so successful is years of training and hard work in field, and they are always evolving and learning from feedbacks. I think this a really important for all the puas out there to know. So at night, we went to this restaurant bar, I was pretty excited to go into the field to put my newly acquired knowledge into use and get feedbacks. The night was still young; the place wasn’t very target-rich. Showtime spots a 2-set outside of the restaurant, so he asked me to approach. I looked over; there was hot blonde 2-set, with 4 dudes. I asked showtime: “the one with amogs?” Showtime confirmed me hesitantly. I thought about what I was taught in the lecture, so no hesitation I just went in. I addressed the whole set, but one of the guys started ignoring me, so I kept going and used a bit of amogging tactics that I already knew, and then they just walked away. I got to talk to the girls! I did A and B, then transit to C. In retrospect, I should’ve isolated and forced into D, but at the time I thought this is my first set, tonight I’m just going to focus on A and B. It turns out, the 2 set is the best one I talk to all night in terms of looks! This makes me think about something that JT says in his blog: “this is why we learn pick up, guys! So when your dream girl comes along, you have the skills to get her, to not let her walk away from your life!” we approached some more sets then bounce to another venue. The night ends at about 1:30, and then we went debriefing the night at Carrows. This is where the moment of the night comes from! While we were waiting for the food, I looked over my shoulder; next thing you know, Jonny is talking to a hot 6-foot tall brunette, and her friend is just sitting across the table doing her own thing. In about 2 minutes, they are already holding hands, I can tell from the eyes of the girl that she is totally into Johnny! Then I realized that I was witnessing the “stone cold pimp in action!” She was kinoing Johnny like crazy, I knew that she already fell into the wolf trap, it was over! At that moment, I felt like I was watching a romantic movie, the whole restaurant disappears, and there is the girl and Johnny, that’s it. Then they kissed. I have to say that watching Johnny in action is just unreal. The Carrows pick up wolf special meal is legendary!

Day 2: we learned C and D during the lecture portion. There was tons of information, we also went over the direct opener, I was really to put all of these into use and add onto what we learned in the previous night. For the night portion, we went to a club with bottle service. I knew that the goal of the night is to work on C and D. I was trying to bring girls back to our couches. The first set went really well, I ran direct opener and quickly brought them back to our table. The night kind of went downhill from there. After that, I went through a period where I was so eager to bring them back that it hindered my game. I was being needy at times. Then I analyzed my failed sets, and then decided to try harder and improve on certain things. I decided that I wasn’t going back to the table until I bring girls back. I didn’t want to leech off of other brothers and instructors; I needed to learn from my mistakes. Then I went downstairs, adjusted my energy level and one set immediately hooked. I ended up kissing a girl on the dance floor. After that, I got some new found confidence and was able to sit down with few more girls to work on my C and D. Once again, Jonny had some girls with him at the table most of the time and the crazy thing is that I never saw him leaving the table! Showtime gave me some advice on my direct opener that immediately gets me results. He has a keen eye for body language and tonality! After we left the club, we went to a Chinese restaurant for debriefing. At this point, I really felt like we were just bunch of brothers hanging out. The bond between all the students are strong, and I felt like we were all proud of each other’s accomplishment, and we talked about random cool shit in life besides debriefing, Johnny and Showtime were also enjoying the night with us.

Day 3: I went through E and F in lecture. I was quite surprised that the ABCs team went into such details about the logistics part. They really took care of us from the head to the toes, literally! The instructors really wanted us to succeed in this game. At night, we went to a bar. We ran into a lot of couples in the bar. It was a great chance to practice amogging. But it was the two conversations that I had with Johnny and Showtime that I found most memorable.Maybe it was because I never had much approach anxiety and was always out trying to improve myself, or maybe everybody saw me as a young guy that doesn’t have much going for him, for some reason I felt like Johnny never cared much about me. But this night, when I once again failed to take my time in the set as the instructors told me to, when I tried to isolate or go into D too early, Johnny snapped, he harshly criticized me. After that, I told Johnny that I felt freaking beta for the first time during bootcamp. Then I looked him in the eyes then said: “it’s ok because I know you love me like a little brother.” Then I saw Johnny nodding him head. At that moment, I just couldn’t hold up the tears in my eyes. I knew that Johnny really cared about me, and he was like the big brother that I never had in my life! I knew that the only way that I can make him proud was to succeed, so I turn around opened the closest set with the tears still on my face. Johnny later made a joke about it. I also spent a long time talking to showtime about amogging. I told him that I always thought amogging as an aggressive thing, I’m competitive and I want to win. But he used a superman analogy to tell me that you can be a good pua or a bad one. I realized that I go out to meet friends and have fun too, not just to pick up girls, and take them away from their boyfriends. I knew that my aggression probably comes from the frustration of being an angry Asian man. But now I can proudly say that I will always go out to have fun, and nobody is going to make me mad because I’m more emotionally intelligent. The night ended at 2:00, then after debriefing, we all went our separate ways. I really felt a sense of lose. I didn’t want it to end, I felt like we were all brothers. But every beginning has an end and every end is a new beginning!

Johnny: like I said, I felt like you are the big brother that I never had. I really enjoyed learning from you. Even though that I’m a few years younger than you and I don’t have much going for me now, I will always remember you! You showed me the way, and I’m going to take this and change my life. I’m going to tell myself that I can do this! As I’m writing this, I can’t help but get all emotional here. Let’s just leave it here.

Showtime: I learned a lot from you over the weekend. Not just pick up, but also how to be a man. For a guy that is same age as me, your maturity level is just unreal! You shared some of your experience growing up and dealing with family, they really helped me realize what is possible and what I need to improve on.

APB: Even though I didn’t have the pleasure to meet you in person, I want to especially thank you for setting up the program and blog. It was reading your blogs that give me the strength to push myself in the field, go into the hardest situations. I know that you personally went through all that to get to this point, and what we are going through in the beginner’s hell is nothing comparing to all the hard work you put in. Thanks again for showing us the way!

Fellow students: I really enjoyed learning and growing with all you guys. During the bootcamp, I realized that all of us are real guys that deserve to have quality women in our life. We are all fun and genuine, and I will definitely keep in touch with you guys!

To sign up for an ABC’s of Attraction bootcamp and to see our full schedule visit: http://www.abcofattraction.com/wordpress/checkout/

In the upcoming month’s we’ll be in the follow cities:

Austin, TX
New York
San Francisco
Los Angeles
Australia
China

For more information go to: www.ABCofAttraction.com

Dude, that was the craziest party ever. Every day since the party ended, I’ve gotten a call from someone telling me how amazing it was and how they hooked up with so and so chick.

There were about 35 guys and over 100 girls, and everyone I know hooked up with at least one girl that night.

One of my former ABC’s of Attraction bootcamp students, Mythical, had a threesome with two hot girls. His first threesome ever by the way. And today, he called me saying he hooked up with the two girls again, but this time, they brought another girl, so he had a freaking FOURSOME! How fucking crazy is that. He took his first bootcamp with me just a few months ago, and now look at what he’s doing. Sex with three girls at a time!

This is the original testimonal he did after the bootcamp, I’m gonna have him do a followup:

Anyways, I also got a call from my from Paul who said the buying tempature set up of the party was so high, that the girl he came with (who he just met the night before) pulled him into the bathroom to fuck, as soon as our intern coach Ozziesauresmex got done fucking one of the blondes. That bathroom got a lot of action that night. Oh yah then Paul also got a handjob from a lesbian chick who was mad because her girlfriend was fucking some other guy. Our security guard got pulled into the bathroom, but as a good doorman he refused her, and our DJ took a girl home and fucked till the morning.

A of course the birthday boy hooked up as well. I’m not going to kiss and tell exactly who, but it involved birthday blowjobs, some hot tub action, and plenty of birthday kisses. I’m far happier to hear that my former bootcamp students are getting laid! That’s the power of the ABC’s of Attraction, it’s our alumni network and followup that keeps our students progressing and doing well. Pick up is a long hard journey, you need the support of a strong network of brotherhood that cares to see you grow. If you havn’t signed up for one yet, do it now, you’ll be happy you did.

Upcoming Bootcamp Schedule:
San Francisco
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Los Angeles
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So me and Sonic arrive in Vegas one night before the bootcamp to check in the hotel and relax. But of course, we decide to go out and hook up. Funny thing is, I was a dating a girl a few weeks ago that I would have happily gave it all up for, but her loss I guess. The greatest thing about being a pick up artist is picking ourselves up back on our feet stronger than we were before.

I told Sonic that we can’t go out clubbing, we’ll be doing it for the next three nights and need to save our energy. So instead, we go to O’Sheas, an Irish pub casino. I start talking to some girls that were watching guys play beer pong, then I meet this gorgeous tall, hot red head, that I then went direct on. I just smiled, said hello with a strong sexually confident vibe and told her that I loved her tattos. We flirted for a bit, and I kissed her clover tattoo on her arm. She mentions she has another tattoo on her ankle, and I tell her that I’ll kiss it later tonight when they’re ontop of my shoulders. She loved it and told me to call her in an hour after she took care of her drunk friends. So up to Margrattaville we went. I see a really pretty girl with her entire extended family. I’m talking grandparents, aunts, uncles, you name it. But I thought to myself, she’s the type of girl I’d wanna date long term. So I approached, first the grandparents, then to her dad, to her mom, and eventually it was just me and her. I suggested that she comes to hang out with me and my friends since we’re all young and fun, and she gives me her number.

The next set of people was something that sonic was shocked to see me open up. It was two huge harley davidson riding white guys, and two hot white girls sitting at a dinner table. The pictures don’t even do them justice, standing up one was 6′3 and the other 6′6. But I thought the blonde was hot, so I had to approach. I befriend the table, and sit down next to the blonde. Turns out, the guys were really cool and they wern’t with the girls, they had just met. But most guys, actually all guys, would assume they were together, and that the guys would smash in our heads for pulling something like that. But nope, some of the best sets are the ones that other people think are impossible. Plus it shows a lot of balls and confidence going into a hard situation like that.

As I was sitting with the group, I get a phone call from a friend…which reminded me to call the red head back. She answers right away and tells me that she’s bringing her drunk girlfriend home. We flirt for a bit and I tell her she should come hang out with me here. She says she has work in the morning, but that I could go to her place and have a quick drink. For the guys that don’t know this, that means sex. =)

So I take a cab to the suburbs of Vegas, and we hook up. The sex was great, but the sleep was horrible. I’ve never had such bad sleep in my life. Her bed was way too soft and uncomfortable, she had this weird thing about needing to sleep with her TV on. I finally get to sleep somehow, and I get woken up at 6:30am by her saying, I need to get to work! So out the door I go….here’s the rest of it on video:

Hey guys this summer, we’re coming to Las Vegas, Austin Texas and San Francisco, New York and Los Angeles for what is going to be another string of amazing bootcamps!

What do our bootcamps entail?

Well, first off, we’re one of the only programs that take you out three days and three nights! That’s friday, saturday, and sunday. We teach you a solid, proven structure, that you can plug and play your existing strong points into the ABC’s.

We teach a different method best described as “Structured Natural” which we break down why canned openers work, and give you exercises, to make natural and situational openers on the spot but still having a structure to follow so you’re actually gaming, not just getting lucky.

What we’re not:

We don’t sit around and circle jerk all day pumping up your state and then act like frat boys in the club.
We don’t make you wear ridiciously peacocking outfits, or have your fellow students kiss you on the cheek with lipstick.
We don’t tell you to go in acting gay in order to disarm the group.
We don’t teach rape game where you grab the girl forcefully.

We teach you the ABC’s of Attraction, simply, natural, and powerful.

Sign up for your spot today: www.abcofattraction.eventbrite.com

Thanks. But you didn’t need to do that, and it didn’t help you get the girl. Well, unless you want a gold digger that won’t sleep with you.

Background: We were hanging out in New York last week, and cold approached a cute blonde and brunette which we ended up hanging out with as social proof. The blonde was a total gold digger, and spotted a complete AFC (avergage fustrated chump) from Singapore, who she opened and started figuring out who he was and how “nice” he was. A gold diggers code word to make themselves not feel like a tramp, is “he was so nice, he bought me this and that”

Just to mess with him, I came in and introduced myself, no hard core AMOGING or anything (establishing myself as the Alpha Male of the Group) but he freaked out, right away he got up and aplogized for talking to my girl, and started to leave. I laughed and told him to stay, and just to make sure he bought her drinks.

I come back 30 minutes later, and we have a $800 bottle of Cristal Champange at our table, and he promptly offers myself, and my friend Saffaron a glass. She and I later had our laughs about him, and how she wasn’t even going to kiss him even after he bought the bottle.

Why do guys think that they can get girls by buying them? And why do girls not feel any remose by clearly being a gold digger? Either way, this is why I’m glad we understand the pick up arts, I feel bad for guys that get used, never again will I be that guy.